time @ situation?

some say that they have to change due to two most famous reasons:

1. time
2. situation

indeed these are the common reason one will deliver once they have changed..
yet,
my mind could not accept that people can change easily,
it is all beneath one's personal deed and option either to change or not..
there is no reason to blame other factors for your changes..
as YOU CHOOSE TO CHANGE & CHANGES HAPPENS AS YOU WISH TOO..

but,
if you had changed,
accept the changes and tell the truth,
accept that the person with you might have difficulties to adapted to your changes,

if,
the person could not accept it,
you have hurt her/him,
you have change to worse,
you have label yourself to something else,
you have forgotten your promises made earlier,
you have made her/him cry...

it might be rough at first to accept such changes,
before you change your

1. behaviour 
2. attitude  
3. personality

you should learn if the you are able to accept such changes if it occurs to you..
how if you are going through the process where you are facing your dear one changed??
think before you blame and argue with them!!
THINK! THINK! THINK!!